Nora

March 03, 2010 @ (Norway)

Tags: Confusing long distance

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So, I lived in the USA for a year and got a boyfriend. We dated for approx. 8 months before I had to leave. We went in to a long distance realtionship which was hard but it worked. Now 8 months into it, and 4 moths before I come back, he decides to end it. I was heartbroken. Now after a week of silence he e-mails me and asks: did we use condoms when whe had sex"!? He also said "he was just thinking about it the other night." This all happened after he said he didn't have any feelings for me anymore, he even said he didn't want me to come back and now he's randomly e-mailing me! What is this supposed to mean? Does he regret breaking up, or just trying to make it harder for me to get over him?

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Nora

March 08, 2010

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So heres some more! Today he e-mails me and says: I just wanted to let you know that if you move some where by me next year I would really like to fuck you! What kind of a freak has he turned into?!

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chico rush

March 05, 2010

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maybe he's got a disease,doesn't know when he got it and is trying to figure out if he should tell her and is thinking that if they used rubbers then she's safe

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krismas

March 05, 2010

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Sped is right. He's double checking she's not pregnant, but he definitely doesn't want to get back together. And he has been sleeping with other girls at the same time, -or- you guys did it a lot when wasted *shrug* else he'd remember..

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sped

March 04, 2010

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To H: you can live your life as if you are in a Harlequin romance novel if you want to. But no way this guy is missing the Norwegian chick and wants to get back together

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H

March 04, 2010

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are you always this harsh sped?, I mean, how can you possibly say that he has been sleeping around with a bunch of girls, and that child support is his problem out of this text? I think he regrets breaking up with you and now wants a reason to talk to you!

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H

March 04, 2010

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are you always this harsh sped?, I mean, how can you possibly say that he has been sleeping around with a bunch of girls, and that child support is his problem out of this text? I think he regrets breaking up with you and now wants a reason to talk to you!

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sped

March 03, 2010

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It means that he found somone that he likes better than you and that you have been dumped American style. He is asking about the condoms because he is hoping that you don't have a bun in the oven to surprise him with when you come back. So he is scared. What I find hilarious is that he can't remember if he used a condom. That means that while he was doing the Norwegian cruise in your snatch he was banging other chicks. So many that he can't remember if he rode you bareback or not. I suppose that he has dumped the other girls and that they don't know his name. But you were special and you know who he is. He might be thinking that you are coming back to file for child support or have the baby in the US for dual citizenship. You are coming back into his life and he doesn't know why so he is scared. He is happy that he broke up and wants to make sure it stays that way.

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pagoda pete

March 03, 2010

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long distance is hard when you're in the same country let alone on different continents.he probably regrets breaking up with you,a little at least.the thing about the condoms is weird though.i used to date a girl from oslo and her and all the women in her family,that i met,were super hot and they said most norwegian women are.you probably are too so he probably misses that.

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