Kim's Breakup Story in London - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Kim

March 08, 2012 @ (London)

Tags: David

So my worst breakup happened around a year ago. I was with a guy, David, who was really into religion and basically saw everything from a religious perspective. I am a Protestant but I don't take things to the extreme, unlike him.

2 years into the relationship I was bored and sick of him. Don't get me wrong, he's a good person, but his possessive nature would drive me up the wall. I could not stand him preaching about this and that.

Anyways so one day he started saying that I am cheating on him with many of the guys I know.. I mean seriously.... I really took offence at what he started saying about me. Then one day he started shouting and saying that I am cheating on him with his best guy mate. And I'm like no I'm not. I was debating leaving him (and had been for nearly under a year) when he spat at me. I broke up with him on the spot. I mean what sort of mutton spits at his girlfriend?

He cried and begged me not to leave him. He spent 5 months constantly stalking me and even threatened to kill himself. This was a very rough time for me but through the help of my friends and family I kept strong. I avoided all contact with him and blocked him from my phone. Things got so bad that we had to get a restraining order from the police.

I occasionally do see him and he gives me the shivers. Oh well :/

Comment on this breakup

Steve

March 13, 2012

Well I am religious but you were right to leave him. Now I don't know why he would accuse you of cheating but if you were thinking of leaving him for a little under a year you may have been showing signs that you were about to leave and he panicked. However that is no reason to randomly accuse you of what he did. Then spitting at you as if from the old testament was just wrong on his part. I hear many women call their ex's stalkers but when I ask what they did many say well he wouldn't leave me alone. Many times people guys and girls just end a relationship which leaves the other wondering what went wrong and they need to have closure. I dont think that happened here though. So long story short you did the right thing.

unknown

March 09, 2012

That's really hectic!! I really admire how you handled the situation... You're a strong person! :) As for your ex, I think he needs mental help [jokes aside]. He sounds like he has disturbing issues within himself that he has to deal with. Anyway, you sound like a really amazing person!! I hope you find your mister right :):) Xoxo