Diana's Breakup Story in Maryland - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Diana

December 06, 2009 @ (Maryland)

Back story: B/f and I have lived together for 5 years. We have been through a lot. Losing grandparents, my father having cancer, him being laid off...the list goes on. We have talked about marriage before and he always said that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.

We are at thanksgiving dinner with his family and as always the questions begin about future wedding plans. B/f flips shit and in front of his whole family tells me he is moving out, he can't handle the pressure. I still had to drive an hr to my parents house and have thanksgiving with them. I figured he just snapped with pressure of the holidays and what not. I went home around 10pm...his shits gone...phone turned off.

To make things worse, his brother calls yesterday to ask me out on a date. Weirdest fucking family ever.

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SLMVP

January 31, 2010

I was also dating a man for 5 years. I dropped out of school and worked 2 jobs so he can finish his MSW. Working hard wondering when he is going to ask me to marry him. I keep asking and one day he did ask me to marry him. I could tell in my heart he did not want to. Well I am working hard to put him through school. Putting my own Education on hold. He always wanted to go help a friend not sure who the friend was. I was so trusting I did not have a problem with it. Come to find out he was cheating on me. I did not know. One day he came home a week before he is done with his MSW and said he did not love me anymore. I was in shock. did not know what to do.I could not run home from a different country. He also askes for the ring back. I did not cared that he cheated on me I begged and pleaded for him to love me and stay with me. He was my first everything. about a week went by and did not here from him. One day I came home form work and the Apt was cleaned out. He never answered my calls. It has been 18 years. Just found him on face book. He married the other women right away and have been married for 17 years. It still hurt me today, because i never had closer. I am happily married my self with a wonderful son. I still cannot get what he did to me out of my heart and head. I e-mailed him and he did not respond. i thought maybe he would say sorry. he left me with all the bills to pay and took my car. Men sometimes sucks. I do have a wonderful husband. Have have been married for 13 years. it took me 4 years to get over my ex.

sped

December 07, 2009

the brother must have heard good things about you and wanted a shot at that pussy, too. Did you go on a date with him and let him give it a test drive?