Flyyy

January 23, 2011 @ (uk)

Tags: heartbreak


I met this girl when were 16/17 we had a great relationship from from the start. We did everything together and lost our virginity together. We were together nearly two years and she told.me out of the blue she didnt love me anymore. I wanted nothing to do with her but soon realised i missed her like hell. We tried being friends but just ended up sleeping together for a few more weeks. Until she broke it off again. We went seperate ways and barely spoke since apart from arguments which always ended with us meeting up, kissing and her crying. Its been nearly two years and i cant get her out my head. I have had relationships but ended them because i was still in love with her. Recently weve been txting again and it was great to catch up, until she got drunk and began txting me saying how much she misses me etc. I have been a wreck since she left, drinking and smoking etc. And i am now so confused, she has asked to meet up and as much as i want to i am terrified if meeting her and the thought of her with someone else tears me apart. I feel like i should walk away but i have tried and i get nowhere. I just dont know what to do....


       


 

Comment on this breakup






Jo

March 15, 2011


My cousin told me very wise advice when my gf and I broke up... You can't be friends with your ex for at least a year... Well, I tried to be friends and I couldn't play nice lol. It's been almost 3 years and now I think about her from time to time, but I won't try being friends again.


     


Faif

February 04, 2011


Leave her be. She obviously doesn't know what she wants and you still need to mend your wounds from her. Give yourself time and give her time to figure out where she stands. Learn how to be on your own for a while, then see how you feel. for all you know your real true love could be out there waiting for you........... Maybe this girl your having problems with is just a thing from your childhood.


     


slmvp

January 24, 2011


Move on. It will set you back again if you see her. You are so young. Find something to do with your time. I was in a relationship for 5 years when he said he did not love me. It took me 3 years to stop crying. I move on and found the best man. We a have been married now for 15 years. I still think about my ex and it have been 20 years. When I think about him it is all hate. Good luck. Move on you will find a nice girl when the time is right. God Bless you.


     


bobby

January 24, 2011


you are not very old mate get your self out there forget the ex as best you can and just have fun with friends go on a few nights out and let your self go for a little while and just remember always go forward and dont look back because you will no that if you look back you will be the one that ends up hurting


     


Alexis

January 23, 2011


I'm going through the exact same thing right now! except mine just got a girlfriend a week ago and I've been a wreck. If you really want her back and for things to work out you should see her and try with all your will and power, but if you don't see yourself being with her again then don't put yourself through seeing her. I just saw mine yesterday and it made things so much more complicated, and made nothing better :(