Jj

January 16, 2010 @ (east coast)

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I'm a 34 yr old guy who was looking to settle down with a good girl. I meet this girl about 10 mo. ago and she seems like the perfect woman. I live about an hour away , but we made it work. She tells me she is ready to settle down, doesn't go out, ect etc..about 2 weeks in she is calling me from a cab at 1 am drunk..this happened a few times..instead of coming up to my house to see me, she was out with friends a lot of the time. I started to get pissed and told her I was done a few times..She begged and pleaded and said I was the best guy she ever met, she doesn't want to lose me..Fast fwd three days before x-mas..I see an e-mail on her comp to a friend basically saying if i didn't have a boyfriend up my ass i'd be partying every night of the week..i said screw you and left..girl never called to say merry christmas, happy new year,happy birthday..zerooooo..not even an explanation about the e-mail..dropped off the face of the earth after a year..i just don't get it.


       


 

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theDigitalDad

June 20, 2010


Dude, wake the fuck up. Go buy a piece a tail from a pro ho if you're that horny and can't hook up. Have no doubt you're off with out her. That bitch was a loser. I hope you're not really that fucking blind


     


STD

February 11, 2010


id get myself down to a doc for a STD check..lol..good luck!!


     


jJ

February 11, 2010


34 single?? lol.. my humble opinion all singles over 30 have a few screw's loose.. I think if you cant find a guy/girl by that time there's something wrong with you... Maybe too uptight or moody or set in your ways.. Take you pick - any one will do.. if your over 30+ and single you gotta be ready to make some real big concessions for your partner. EG/ -she goes out- drop her off, pick her up -1hr away- move closer or spend nights together -get a life yourself and you wont notice how much she was going out.. and just because you want to settle down ant mean lock yourself indoors and throw away the keys


     


herbert whoover

January 25, 2010


"ex-girlrep" definately sounds a little militant in her opinion on who's right or wrong here. just because television tells us that the man is always in the wrong it's not always the case.she's probably pissed that a mere man had the temerity to try and curtail his ex girlfriend's extra-curicular sex life(and we all know that's what was going on)and regain some of his self respect.he's just lucky that she didn't get knocked up by some random dude,when she was out drunk off her ass with her girlfriends,and try to make him believe it was his.


     


iamright

January 25, 2010


whooh "ex-girlrep" I'm gonna have to say you sound a little crazy! I re-read this post and honestly I can't find out where he did anything wrong. Please...enlighten me. She lied to him and said she was ready to settle down and didn't go out, then starts going out all the time and calling him drunk...wtf?!?! You can't tell someone you have type "A" personality, and then flip a switch to type "B" later on. That's just flat out leading someone on. But no, I see, since you hate all men it's always going to be "his" fault. Please. Sending an email to her friend saying if she didn't have a BF up her ass she'd be partyin all the time...sounds like a girl who just wants to have some fun. And yes, I am a women.


     


ex-girlrep

January 25, 2010


you're the type of guy i can not stand. Trying to get a woman to beg for you to "forgive them" because they've done you "so wrong"... She doesn't owe you shit. In fact.. You owe HER an apology for smothering her. Don't say shit you don't mean. Obviously--- she wanted to get OUT. she wanted to be out with her friends more. ALL YOU DID was give her the pass to do so. WHY do you care that she didn't wish your needy ass a damn Merry Christmas? YOU told her to fuck off and she did. Next time, You'll say what you mean and mean what you say won't ya?


     


imright

January 20, 2010


what a bitch...you are better off without her.


     


MichaEL

January 17, 2010


You need to understand that when she built that expectation with you, she was presenting what she WANTED you to see. She was gaming YOU! She wanted YOU! You just didn't understand how to--in turn--manage her expectations and screen her you as someone who would waiste your time. You were the Prize. She lost you!


     


sped

January 16, 2010


Jj you are a dipshit. 34 yr old guy looking to settle down is pathetic to begin with. Then you hook up with a whore. She says she doesn't go out much and you believe her. You are nothing but a wad of money to that cunt. You live an hour away, which means a) she can spread her legs for any random cock and doesn't have to worry about you showing up and b) she has the time to clean up and spruce up the cooch while you are on the way over. You're the best guy she ever met because you pay for everything and then leave her alone to open up her pussy or ass for anyone she wants. She's been getting fucked every way from Sunday while you sit with your blue balls an hour away. And you were clueless for almost a year. Turn in that man card and go move into your parents basement


     


chico rush

January 16, 2010


what you don't get is what you've never gotten;her pussy without a load of cum in it.you read the email and it said she wished she didn't have a boyfriend so she could party all the time.so that's what she's doing she's out there fucking all the guys she did when you were together it's just that there's no extra zing from fucking around on a sucker like you