Sara

April 17, 2015 @ (Canada)

Tags: bad breakup


My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago, everything was going so great, I never felt this happy before, he made me feel like a princess and I know that he truly cared. We have been together for a year and a half, we have had problems, but nothing really major, it was often the same problems again and again, but I thought that we had so much more good times than bad ones and from my point of view, the relationship was going just fine. Well, aparently not, he did not told me a specific reason for the breakup, he just told me that he felt their was a distance between us now, that it was not like it used to be, that we loved less that he did. And i was just so confused, I did not get it and none of my friends or family members neither. They just could not understand, just like me. My friends and family loved him. We promised that we will be friends, but soon realised that we needed some time off first. So we tried to stop talking to each others, but we failed, it's been a month and we talk at least once a week. He tells that he misses me all the time and I miss him so much too, I can't stop thinking about him. And I know that if we ever get back together, we could make this work. I asked him to take and break, he said he did not want to, I asked him if we took some time off and try this again in a few months, we frist said ok, but then said no,that he did not want me in his life anymore, yet he tells that he misses me... I just do not get and I am so confused. I am juste sitting there, hoping he will come at my door tomorrow and ask me to get back together, knowing it will never happen. Never knew something could hurt so much.


       


 

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Sara

April 20, 2015


c_papillon, yeah, mee too I read alot about it! I tried, but he keeps talking to me and I keep seeing him in college, so it's not really working, I don't know what to do :(


     


c_papillon

April 20, 2015


i've been reading alot on this topic of break ups and it's the best thing for you to try the NO CONTACT rule (30 days of no contact). apparently it's very effective...


     


Sara

April 19, 2015


c_papillon, he actually still talk to me and it so difficult getting over him. And I can't ignore him because I actually like talking to him even if it hurts! We are able to get through his! Good luck!


     


c_papillon

April 19, 2015


Your story is exactly like mine, he broke up with me 5 days ago and asked that I not contact him and to assume we're never getting back together - that means I can't even contact him when I miss him, get some consolation. I've decided to accept his decision even though it's so tough, it's better to move on in the meantime and let fate decide.