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Layla

November 03, 2018 @ (unites states)

So Im 15 and i was dating the 17 year old that my friend had introduced me to. me and him had talked for a long while about two months and then he finally asked me out but i was nervous saying yes because he had turned into my best friend when no one else was. i eventually had said yes to him . this was the best relationship i have ever had. well one day i decided to go camping with my family and i met this one boy who had talked me into being with him for the night and i did. well i told my boyfriend about it and he cried but he forgave me because i was the only girl he wanted in his life . after that i became depressed and had really bad anxiety and one day i called him and i thought i was telling him i loved him one last time well it didn't work so i had to tell him what i done and he started taking pills and i had to end everything and every once in a while i get these texts from him that he loves me and he cant find no one like me and i know its him because he used to call me "mi amour" and he used it in every text so i knew it was him . now he was my first kiss my first commitment my first relationship goal he was my everything now its over

Bad Luck

September 18, 2018 @ (Bulgaria)

Tags: Bad breakup, Cancer

Me and my girlfriend broke up this April after nearly 4 years of being together. Last October I was diagnosed with testicular cancer and had to undergo surgery (unfortunately lost one of my soldiers) and go to chemo. When this news came we had recently moved in together, but I had to return to my home town for treatment for about half an year. In that span of time she came to visit me 2 times and I went to visit her 2 times. Initially she was hesitant to come when I said that I will have to go through an operation. Her excuses were more than laughable - she had too much work in uni, I was too far away, couldn't we communicate through Viber, she though that this was a routine operation..... whatever that means. At least I think they are laughable, if the situation was in reverse I wouldn't hesitate to put everything on hold. So 6 month later I am fine, alive and kicking and when I return to her the first thing she literally said was ''Hi! We need to talk. I want to break-up with you''. She stated that she had learned to be alone for this time and thought our relationship was stagnating (which I have to agree with). Three-four months after we separated she has a new boyfriend. To whoever might read this - value your life, value your dignity, value yourself. For if you do not, nobody else will. If you do not live for yourself, nobody else will. I might come across as an egoist, but after this ordeal, life taught me that you have to an egoist, otherwise you will make compromises with no clear gain. God Bless and good luck to everybody. May you be spared such an experience!

Keke

July 12, 2018 @ (canada)

Tags: I broke up with him, he was to scared too

So, this may be boring but I broke up with him, he was trying to but was too scared to do so, we ended it a week before summer break, we both were so confused that we had started to "see" each other, we started doing the same things as before, but just without the commitment, we would spend most of our time with others,but when together acted as though we never broke up, it definitely stung we would fight and so on and yet we couldn't stop coming back to each other and know he tells me he loves me, even though that's why we broke up at the start. Moral of the story, do not keep going back, move on and start your own life.

Anonymous

June 27, 2018 @ (Kansas)

Tags: Cheating

She was amazing. I told myself that I wouldnâ€™t date anyone for a long time and then she came into the picture. 6 months into our relationship I was put on probation and sent to a mental hospital and she cheated on me with out best friend. Then 3 months later cheated on me again. Somehow I thought that I could forgive her and we kept going for another year, only to find out that she lied to me for the last year and she was completely over me.

Anonymous

April 01, 2018 @ (Arizona)

Tags: Bad breakup

We dated for over two years. The last six months of it was nothing but me trying to help her with her bad self esteem problems. I would do nothing but compliment her, give her gifts, listen to her problems... Everything I possibly could do to help her feel wanted. What did I get in return? Absolutely nothing, that's what. She constantly complained to me how she didn't feel loved or wanted, and she was constantly angry with me. At some point, I just felt like a husk. I felt like crap every day, I was never happy, and I was nervous to go home. On the last night, I completely shut down and told her that the relationship was over. She responded by threatening to kill herself. I had to call the cops on her, and the next day she was moved out. Fast forward 4 months, and I feel a whole lot better. The only problem is that we were moved in together with one of her friends, so she has had an excuse to come over as often as possible, and more recently she has started bringing her rebound over as well. I'm so sick of this, every time I see her in my home I have to be reminded of the absolute hell I went through. I just want her out of my life.

Majestic_flower

March 20, 2018 @ (Miami)

Tags: Bad reason to break up ðŸ˜”

I met this boy about April and I decided to give him my insta an we talked for a while until I gave him my number. It was going great he was such a sweetheart I couldn't believe that a boy like this existed. We went on a few movie dates etc, and I met his family lovely ppl btw.
It was then one time he asked for pictures of my goods you understand immediately I said no because I would never do something like, that my standards are to high and I'm well aware of the consequences if in the hands of the wrong person. We got into a bad argument about it before but he apologized and slowly we got back to where we use to be until another time I posted a pic showing my sunburn and I was in a towel(it wasn't even revealing) and then he started up the picture thing again I didn't want to let him go but I knew I had to because he didn't respect my choices one bit and when I told him "it's best for us to break up" All he did was send a clapping emoji...... I don't regret breaking up with him because I know my value I hope you other persons know yours too.

Erica

February 08, 2018 @ (Greece)

Tags: Dumped a cheater, dumped a liar, left without a word, dumped a divorced boyfriend

I caught him many times telling lies to everybody. l have a huge understanding but l never forget. So when he was a few weeks ago on a business trip l noticed again strange behaviour. And finally, last week l did what l never did, checked his messages. I was shocked. He was kissing me before his business trip and a minute later he was texting to a woman to meet. I saw him as predator, seeking for sex, asking women to go out aggressively. I realized l was in danger. I felt abused, taken advantaged, mistreated, deceived. The red flags were there all the time but he was manipulating me with nice words and from time to time nice actions. So after the apocalypse last Sunday morning, l was sitting on the sofa thinking "would l ever accept my daughter to be in such a situation"? Of course not. He was sleeping and l dressed up, decided that it was my last time there and left the flat for good without a word. Immediately l blocked all his calls and messages, erased all common photos on social media and promised myself to never talk or see him. The next day (4 days ago) l was a wreck. I loved him dearly, unconditionally, sincerely. I did only good to him in every aspect of his life.

N

January 23, 2018 @ (usa)

Tags: fuck you

it was the beginning of my junior year when i met levi, well, sort of. it was like a dream come true because the year before that, he didnâ€™t know i existed while i was admiring him every time i saw him in school. iâ€™ve always thought he was cute but never did i think i was going to have a chance since he was popular. we were talking for about a month before we started dating. a couple months go by and we started arguing day and night. he got mad at me for the littlest things and it got to a point where i would always get anxious about what i would do and if it would make him mad or not. he started getting cold towards me. hurting my feelings, giving me the silent treatment, ignoring me for hours. may 8, 2016 was the dreaded day we broke up. it didnâ€™t take him long before he started flirting with girls and having sex. it hurt me in ways no one can imagine. month after we broke up, we tried to kick it back together. it just didnâ€™t work out. i look back and i thank god everyday for giving me a life lesson on what to look for in a guy. a real man wouldnâ€™t move on quickly if this relationship was real. but little does he know that my current boyfriend is the same man iâ€™ve been hooking up with while him

N

January 23, 2018 @ (usa)

Tags: fuck you

Nikkolina

December 28, 2017 @ (Sydney)

Tags: bad breakup, broken heart, crying, tears

So there was this guy that my aunty had mentioned she wanted to set me up with and said he was a lovely, good looking boy, kind sweet and that we would be a great match. She had mentioned that we knew each other as kids but I was probably too young to remember. Beside the fact, I said no because it was a really weird idea and I didn't want to meet him that way. However, I did know that he had dated a girl at my school for quite a while but had broken up badly with her. My best friend was also really good friends with him, but never really talked about him much. Then a week passes by and me and my best friend are at a party which she told this guy to meet us at. Me and my friend got separated at the party and he tried getting in contact with her by she wasnt responding.But he somehow knew I was with her and messaged me on facebook, asking if we were still at the party, so I called him (keeping in mind i was almost drunk) and told him where we were. he came with his friends and picked us up and came back to my house around the corner. We were there for a long time, from like 10pm to 3am in the morning. He ended up inviting me to his 18th birthday that was in 2 weeks time and ended up kissing. The next day he has messaged me and asked me out on a date (or so i thought was a date.) We were talking for that week until the date, and had a blast but he didnt seem himself. Then he completely ghosted me and ignored my messages, so I gave up. He ended up messaging me saying that he liked me and didnt want a relationship at the moment, which i completely understood considering the fact that he was turning 18 and just starting to go out clubbing etc. Then i found out he was talking to a girl, not even a week later who he probably was messaging whilst talking to me which made my heart break into pieces because for days I thought i wasn't good enough, or pretty enough or that I was ugly and that it was all my fault. But in reality it was just him being an asshole. He then asked her out a month later, and we saw each other at a dinner, he had asked me if I was talking to any boys, and I told him that it was none of his business because I was just finally getting over him. He was being extremely flirty, and I keep right back in love with him. I asked him if he was talking to any girls and he said no, even though i knew he was. He broke my heart into pieces, and the worst thing is that I still like him, even though he did so many horrible things to me, even made me cry. He is the reason why I dont let boys into my life or heart so easily. Because he broke it and now the only thing that can repair it is time.